Hey Single Squad!!!! For those of you who are thinking, sis what is a situationship, I got you! A situationship is usually an agreement that you have with someone that is not a commitment but attempts at getting the bare minimum of what you want. This could be an agreement to have someone as a sexual partner (which I don’t recommend) or someone that you just hang out with and do relationship things with and doing those things without a commitment. I do not recommend it at all because it is a form of settling instead of getting what you know you want and know that you deserve. Often people will resort to a situationship because they are afraid of being alone or they will tell themselves that it is better than being alone. Honestly, it is better to be alone because these types of agreements will leave scars and do way more damage than good. If you are currently in a situationship I know you may be thinking that you’re happy but you’re not. You’re actually lonely. And in order to have happiness you must first conquer the loneliness so that you can get the relationship that you want and you deserve. Here are 3 tips to help you get started.
Build confidence. Having confidence will help you to accept nothing less than what you know you deserve. It will keep your head and your standards high and will also block the time wasters. Having great confidence shows that you know exactly what you want and what you will and will not put up with. Boost your confidence today by writing and reflecting on 3 of your best qualities. Smile as you reflect on them. A warm smile looks gorgeous on you!
Do what makes you happy. Your happiness is your responsibility. You don’t have to wait until you get into a relationship in order to be happy. The truth is, even when you are in a relationship you have to do things that excite you and keep you happy and your partner may not be into those things. So, you have to be ok with doing things on your own that pleases you. What have you been waiting on that you know would make you happy that you should be doing now? Make a list of 10 things that make you happy and do one each day. Your life does not begin when you get into a relationship, your life is for living now.
Figure out what you need and want to get out of a relationship. Sometimes we want a relationship just because we don’t want to be lonely. But there is more to a relationship than that. In a relationship, we help to serve the other person as well as get our needs met. What do you need from a relationship? Do you need someone who is understanding of you being an entrepreneur or being in the military and can handle what comes with that? Do you need someone who is gentle with you because so many people have been hard on you all of your life? During your singleness it is the time to figure out what you need from a relationship and what you bring to the table as well. Take some time to journal what you want and need from a relationship so that you won’t settle for just anything.
I hope that these tips were helpful to you. I know exactly what it feels like to be in a situationship that is going nowhere fast and wasting time keeping me from a fruitful and flourishing relationship. I don’t want that for you. That is why I created 7 Ways to Get the Man You Want. It is jammed packed with even more information and activities to help you get closer to the relationship you want. And from today until November 29, 2020, you can grab your copy for 30% off using code “SINGLESQUAD”. Just go to my products page, click and download your copy. Hurry, the sale ends soon!!!